Thursday, April 05, 2007 . 14:02

Want a man? Put yourself first.

the title of an article oh Her World Apr 2007 shouts.

here are the subtitles:

1) he doesnt marry a woman who's perfect, he marries one who is interesting.
2)dont even mention the word "commitment", that's the whole trick. the less you mention it, the closer you are to getting one. ( be cool)
3)women are constantly told amazing sex will win a man's heart. this is false.
4)when a man doesnt call, a bunch of scenarios will typically run through a woman's mind.similarly, his imagination will run wild when he doesnt hear from you.
5)a woman who puts herself first wont allow herself to be with a man who is biding his time until something better comes along.
6)there's nothing more prized to a man than something he had to wait for, work for, or struggle a little bit to get.

in a little box beside the text:
1)the first time you have sex, dont bring out previously loved sex toy.it seems too rehearsed, too premeditated.
2)never show him your Rabbit, especially if it's as big as a baseball bat.
3)let him suggest sexual position first.
4)dont undress yourself-you'll look like you cant wait to get it on.let him do it.
5)never, ever kid him about his size.
6)and dont, a la Four Weddings and a Funeral, ask him immediately after:"so when are you announcing our engagement?"

HA.we've all heard and understand the theory whereby you have to love yourself first before others could love you.but very often, when we are in love, we just want to be the Miss Eager-To-Please and appear to be too desperate, which can ironically, i will say, turn a man off.wa lau.we are already at our pounce-on-you position but you are turning us away.okie.maybe this is where point 6 comes in.=D

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